frequently asked questions

  • Start by reading through my website to ensure we’re a great match. Don’t skip over the Etiquette and Investment pages—they’re essential! Once you’re familiar with the details, head to the Contact page and complete my booking form.

    • Please fill out my booking form on my Contact page or send me an email with all required screening information included. Please see my booking form for required screening information.

    • Once our email correspondence is underway and you have passed my screening, please send your deposit via one of the methods I will offer you through email.

    • Upon receipt of your deposit, our appointment is confirmed. Now is the time to get excited! But please, only correspond when it’s pertinent to our appointment date, time, location. I will not entertain salacious messages. Be patient, take time to plan, but don’t overthink it!

    • Arrive on time with donation in hand and we should be raring to go. Please hand off your donation at the start of our appointment in a place where I can clearly see it. Our time begins the moment we meet.

    • You’ve found yourself in a time warp and our date has come to an end far too quickly! Wish to extend? Please come prepared with the proper amount on hand in the case you’re wanting the fun to continue. Extensions are $700/hr.

    • Short answer: No.

    • My screening process is in place for both of our safety. I want to ensure I am seeing a safe person.

    • Upon request, I can correspond with a nondescript email address for your privacy and discretion.

    • I have no intention of using your screening information for anything other than ensuring that I am in the presence of someone safe who has good intentions.

    • I take privacy very seriously. I will NOT contact you on LinkedIn, at your work, or any other way besides the email you contacted me through with your appointment request — unless you request I use a nondescript email for an extra layer of discretion. As for texting, I am not a texter and rarely give out my number; I prefer email.

    • The screening process does require a deposit for: local dates 2 hours or longer, all dates in which I travel farther than 1 hour, as well as all dates on tour. Deposits are mandatory, non-refundable, and are asked for after we complete screening. This is to prevent flakes, fantasizers, and lost time preparing for a ghosted date.

    • A 20% deposit is required for appointments with new friends and for appointments 2 hours and over.

    • Please see my Investment page for more information on deposits as well as my cancellation policy.

  • I strongly prefer that you book a date 48+ hours in advance. 24 hours notice for booking is tolerated but not preferred—it does not hurt to ask though. I can present myself at my very best when I have ample time for planning and preparing before a date. I’m very much a planning type of gal! I care about those little details that take some extra time to ensure they line up just so. For same day appointment requests please add $100.

    For FMTY bookings, I suggest reaching out at least two weeks in advance. This allows for many itinerary details to fall into place such as flight booking, hotel arrangements, and most importantly, time for our own planning and correspondence.

  • Luckily I own four wheels and can travel a bit out of the way for respectful gentlemen. I am open to traveling throughout Chicagoland, Naperville, and as far as Milwaukee. I ask that you please email me with the area in which you live or want me to travel to and I will determine if the travel request is feasible and fits my schedule.

    • For travel distances longer than 1 hour drive I require an additional $100 travel fee as well as a 20% deposit for booking.

    • Chicagoland & Naperville - 2 hour minimum + $100 travel fee

    • Milwaukee - 3 hour minimum + $100 travel fee

  • FMTY = “Fly Me To You”


    My FMTY fee is a flat rate of $1000 + my hourly donation.

    • I have a flat rate of $1000 to cover the cost of my airfare, cabs to and from origin & destination airports/hotels, and meals.

    • I expect all FMTY dates to be an outcall to your upscale hotel. I do not meet clients at their private residences unless we have a strong appointment history and also at my discretion.

    • I have a 6 hour minimum for all domestic FMTY dates.

    • International FMTY: The flat rate FMTY is bespoke and dependent on location. Email me and let’s plan!

    I require a non-refundable 50% deposit for all FMTY dates. Expect to send 50% of the total requested hourly rate + the full $1000 flat rate FMTY fee to secure our date.

  • It’s never awkward unless you make it awkward! Jokes aside, I am not made uncomfortable in the least with this part of our date. In fact, my nerves (that’s right I get butterflies too sometimes) are put at ease when I receive my donation at the start of our appointment. With that being said:

    • Please arrive with your donation on hand and leave it on a counter where I can clearly see it. This is to be done at the start of our appointment.

    • Having your donation tucked into an envelope is great. Receiving my donation in a greeting card is also very lovely.

    • I’m always going to have a look so you may wait, get unpacked, brush your teeth, check your phone—these things will not be interpreted as rude.

    • If our appointment begins at a restaurant or other public place, having your donation securely wrapped in an envelope or greeting card is mandatory. I please ask that you discreetly hand off your donation directly to me at the beginning of our date.

    • Tipping is always thoroughly appreciated but not required. Tips may be cash or a gift card.

    • Bringing a gift is also super appreciated but also not required. If inspired to do so, I have gift ideas on my Thoughtful Gifts page.

  • For appointments 3 hours or more I ask that we engage in a fun social activity in addition to “our” time. Outings include anything from:

    • Grabbing a coffee or cocktail

    • Dining out for brunch / lunch / or dinner

    • Seeing stand-up, improv, or a comedy show at one of Chicago’s many comedy venues & theaters

    • Picnicking, river or lakefront walks, wander about a greenhouse conservatory (Lincoln Park or Garfield Park Conservatories come to mind)

    • Art/history/science museums, art galleries, pop-up exhibitions or installations, an art class for two (I love figure drawing especially)

    • A couples’ spa day / massage for two

    • Catching a show / attending a music festival / seeing some live music nearby

    • Food festivals! (I really love food)

    • If discretion is a priority and you’d like to stay in, sharing a meal together—whether through room service or ordering from a local restaurant—can serve as our social time. For fully in-room dates, please add $100/hour to the rate, with a maximum duration of up to 6 hours.

  • I truly enjoy getting to know someone during longer engagements, and I believe an overnight is the perfect opportunity to escape the everyday and unwind completely.

    As with all appointments exceeding 2 hours, a 20% deposit is required following screening. I offer different digital methods for sending the deposit. If it’s more convenient for you to send 50% ahead of our date, you’re welcome to do so—just confirm with me beforehand.

    Sleep: I require a full 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep and 30 minutes in the morning to myself to engage in my morning routine which will allow me to refresh for you mentally and physically. I want for our connection from the night before to effortlessly flow into a new day. I believe one of the wisest investments is encouraging kindness to the body.

    If we’ve never met before, no worries at all! I’d love to start our date with a meal, giving us a chance to connect and see where the chemistry takes us.